Anonymous: my bf fb messages other girls & lurks other girls constantly. am i obsessed with him or is that not cool? he messaged one saying he wanted to have sex with her. i caught him. he said he wouldn't do it again. continues to lurk girls though, haven't found any incriminating messages though... opinion please...

Hello,

One answer, self confidence.
If he’s doing this to you, fuck him.
I am of the opinion that relationships should be open, but if you don’t think so then he should respect that.
I don’t take crap in relationships, if someone were to try that with me, I’d be out the door so fast.
At the end of the day, be happy with yourself and not with the fact that you have a boyfriend, I’m sure you’ll have no problem getting one in the future.